MATTHEW MORGAN McCALL, M.D,
Alikchi Chukma of the Choctaws, Page
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Arlee Claud Gowen (G1/6.2), son
of Claud Franklin Gowen (G2/1.6) and Ora Ethel Cox Gowen (C2/10.1), was born
November 24, 1922 at Lamesa. He
attended McCarty community school and Lamesa public schools, graduating from
Lamesa High School in May 1939. For two
years prior to graduation he was employed by "Lamesa Reporter,"
weekly newspaper on which he worked as a "printer's devil."
What memories stand out for a
youngster growing up on a farm in the "dirty thirties?" What poignant recollections of youth remain
from over 50 years ago?
"Having my own tin dinner
plate when I became old enough 'to come to the table.' The tiny plate, embossed with numerals and
the letters of the alphabet around its circumference, would make the kid a 'man
of letters,' according to Cousin Guy Rotan who was the donor of the treasured
tinware.
Receiving a bright red coaster
wagon for Christmas that would allow you to transport all your dogs and cats in
one trip.
Drawing straws with my
grandmother to see who had to go outside on a cold, snowy day to winnow the
chaff out of the popcorn before we made popcorn balls.
Watching a sandstorm that
looked like a wall 3,000 feet high roll onto the farmstead out of Lynn County
during the dustbowl days.
Sitting on top of a packed
icecream freezer while Dad turned the crank and contemplating the ecstasy of
that ambrosia crossing the palate as my rump slowly turned numb with cold.
Shelling peas in a washing
machine wringer and watching the legumes emerge like machinegun bullets, when
the family undertook a mass-production canning effort to supply food co-op
during the depression.
Slipping our feet into the
flouroscope in the shoe department at Collins Department Store when trying on
new brogans. You could see in the x-ray
image where the toes were pinched, and with it probably came enough radiation
to see your feet glow in the dark.
Firing up ready-rolled
Chesterfields pilfered from Uncle Elmer's pack by Cousin Dorman. When he caught us, he put us in the cab of
his pickup, rolled up the windows and gave us the whole pack to smoke non-stop.
Selecting the brightest,
shiniest, red 'lumberyard' from the stock of spinning tops at Boothe's store
and seeing that oak leviathan splintering tops of lesser pedigree from the
'keepers' ring' on the schoolyard.
Chopping cotton in the
summertime on the Sellers farm at 20 cents an acre for the first money I ever
earned. The most disagreeable parts of
the job were (1) the gnats that swarmed into the shade of my straw hat and (2)
the water bucket was always at the other end of the field.
Building the 'world's largest
nigger-shooter,' a catapault-sized device capable of hurling a half-pound stone
300 yards and endangering the lives of everyone who came within range.
Substituting at right end and
catching the touchdown that won the intramural championship.
Riding away from
Montgomery-Wards on the first all-aluminum bicycle ever seen in a town of 4,000
envious people. It wasn't long before
the aluminum fenders, the light, the bell and the 'longhorn' handlebars were
stripped down and stashed in the "car shed."
Meeting the special train from
Slaton that brought the townspeople and their devious Tigers to play our Golden
Tornadoes. The minute our win was
posted on the scoreboard, fistfights broke out and continued in a running
battle all the way from the stadium to the depot.
Riding the go-devil cultivator
behind two obstreperous little mules who delighted in walking on the rows of
young cotton rather than on top of the soilbed the minute you began to
daydream.
Climbing the city water tower
at night with a bucket of paint on a dare and having Firechief Standifer turn
on the ear-splitting city siren immediately below us.
Eating 'spotted dog' pudding in
the kitchen of the widow Jones as a reward for taking the milk over to Judge
Robinson's.
Stumbling onto a bootlegger's
drop, stashed under a culvert and running all the way home with the box of six
gallons of home brew proudly clutched between us, only to have Dad send us back
to return it where we found it.
Pulling bolls for 'a dollar a
hundred' and thinking that there must be a better way.
Helping Dad dig a cellar under
the house, using a one-horse scoop pulled by 'ole Bill.' Dad would 'fresno' the dirt out of the
excavation while I kept the horse going forward to dump and backing up to
refill.
Sleeping out under the grape
arbor in the summertime and watching the stars peep through the Concord vines
and invariably getting purple stains on the pillowcase to Mother's chagrin.
Sitting atop a runaway horse
and holding on for dear life to the hames that were pumping like pistons on a
racing locomotive. That skittish
stallion shied at a tincan in the row while I was riding him to 'scratch'
cotton. The scratchers were cedar posts
with headless 16-penny spikes driven into them that were dragged along the row,
breaking the crust to help sprouting cotton plants emerge. I could have bailed out any time in the soft
plowed ground, but those cedar posts were flailing the air behind me like
machetes. The trace ropes pulling the
posts broke when he jumped a 10-foot ditch onto the county roadbed, but then
the surface was too hard and he was running too fast. He covered the half mile to the house in record time, and
approaching the horselot gate, planted his front feet in a dead stop and
watched me sail over his head and over the old toprail.
Showing Cousin Dorman in his visit
to the college how to "requisition" golfballs at the driving range
at 2:00 a.m, only to have the floodlights suddenly come on and being forced to
flee through the campus steam tunnels.
Rounding the Ad Building circle
in the slickest, reddest Ford roadster that 3,500 envious Tech students had
ever seen.
Receiving the president's gavel
to add to my Los Camaradas fraternity pin in my senior year and seeing it wind
up on the sweater of the 'prettist girl in Tech.'
Spending the year of 1941 in
organizing a treasure-hunting expedition to Cocos Island and in securing
permission from the government of Costa Rica to embark, only to have it all go
up in the flames of Pearl Harbor on December 7.
Being catapaulted from the
flight deck in a Curtis Helldiver and suddenly realizing that my youth was
over."
In September 1939 he enrolled
in Texas Technological College at Lubbock.
During his undergraduate days he was employed as a printer at Wood
Printing Company and Texas Tech Press. Later
he was a sportswriter on the "Lubbock Avalanche-Journal." He was graduated in June 1943 with a BA
degree in journalism.
On October 27, 1942 he
volunteered into the U. S. Naval Reserve as an aviation cadet and, prior to
reporting for active duty, was employed on the flightline by Breedlove Aerial
Service, flight training contractor for U.S. Army Air Corps. His naval training began at University of
Texas where his physical training officer was "the meanest man that ever
walked the face of the earth," Coach Paul "Bear" Bryant, who was
later one of the winningest coaches in college football at Texas A&M University
and University of Alabama. After
additional training at Great Lakes Naval Training Station and the University
of Notre Dame he was commissioned an ensign at South Bend, Indiana. Additional duty assignments took him to Ft.
Lauderdale, Florida; Newport, Rhode Island and Newport News, Virginia.
He was assigned to the USS
Randolph (CV-15) as its construction was being completed. As a "plank owner" on the new
aircraft carrier he was aboard on its shake-down cruise to Trinidad. Following refitting and renovation the USS
Randolph joined the Fifth Fleet operating in the Pacific theatre, arriving on station
there via the Panama Canal, San Francisco and Hawaii.
The USS Randolph joined the
fleet in the island anchorage of Ulithi atoll and participated in the war
against Japan until its conclusion, taking part in the Battles of Bonin
Islands, Iwo Jima, Io Shima, Okinawa and the Philippines and air strikes on
Tokyo, Kyushu, Minami Daita Jima and the Nansei Shoto, operating with the
Fifth Fleet, the Third Fleet, Task Force 58 and Task Force 38. After the signing of the peace treaty with
Japan in Tokyo Bay in August 1945 the ship returned to Baltimore, Maryland
October 27, 1945 for a Navy Day victory celebration. He was awarded four battle stars and six campaign ribbons for
service in the Atlantic, Pacific, Arctic and Mediterranean theaters. He was cited for "conspicuous
gallantry" by Admiral Mark Mitscher in an attack by enemy aircraft at
Ulithi when his ship was hit and severely damaged by Kamikazi aircraft.
Later the USS Randolph made
shuttle trips to Naples, Italy to deliver Italian war prisoners and to return
to the United States groups of U.S. Army nurses.
In December 1945 Lt.(jg) Arlee
Claud Gowen (G1/6.2) received a transfer to Naval Air Transport Service and was
stationed successively in Norfolk, Virginia; Patuxent River, Maryland; Olathe,
Kansas and Amarillo, Texas.
On February 16, 1946 he was
married to May Belle "Bonnie" Bonner (B1/7.2), daughter of Joseph
Drew Bonner (B2/3.7) and Alice Belle Hestand Bonner (H2/1.6) in Crane, Texas by
Eddie E. Myers, minister of the gospel, according to Ector County, Texas
Marriage Book 5, page 246. May Belle
"Bonnie" Bonner Gowen (B1/7.2) had graduated from Texas Technological
College in June 1945 and was a teacher in Phillips, Texas High School at the
time of their marriage. After a
honeymoon in New Mexico the couple lived at Pantex, Texas near Amarillo Army
Air Base where he was stationed. He was separated from naval service June 6,
1946 at Galveston, Texas, and they moved immediately to Lubbock where they had
met in college.
In 1946 Arlee Claud Gowen
(G1/6.2) assisted in the organizing and founding of "South- western Crop
and Stock," a farm magazine. He
was named editor of the publication which printed its first edition in January
1947. May Belle "Bonnie"
Bonner Gowen (B1/7.2) was a teacher at Hutchinson Junior High School in Lubbock
at that time. In 1955 he became a
deacon and a bible school teacher at Broadway Church of Christ.
In August 1956 he assisted in
the organization of High Plains Credit Corporation and was named executive
vice-president of organization while continuing in the publishing
business. In 1959 he established a
wholesale electronic supply which became known as Electros, Inc. In 1961 he purchased a farm in Bailey
County, Texas. In April 1965 the couple
applied for a distributorship with Amway Corporation and in November of that
year became direct distributors with that organization.
He had become interested in
family history research in 1941 and continued to pursue that interest for many
years. In September 1986 he entered a
manuscript, "The Widder Dyches" in the Texas Sesquicentennial
competition. It was adjudged first
place winner and was displayed in the Hall of State at the State Fair of Texas
alongside the original Texas Declaration of Independence. In March 1987 he was named to the board of
directors of the South Plains Genealogical Society. In 1987 "The Widder Dyches" received first place in
Texas State Genealogical Society competition.
In 1988 an account of his fifth-generation grandfather, "Matthew
Morgan McCall, M. D, Alikchi Chukma of the Choctaws" again took the TSGS
award.
In 1985, 40 years after the
liberation of the Philippines, they made made a trip there and visited the area
around Manila Bay, Cavite Naval Base, Bataan and the Island of Corregidor.
Having sold their publishing,
finance and electronics interests the couple in 1988 lived in Lubbock where
they continued to operate their Amway distributorship from their home at 5708
Gary Avenue.
Two daughters were born to
Arlee Claud Gowen (G1/6.2) and May Belle "Bonnie" Gowen (B1/7.2):
Bonnie Lee
Gowen (G-1/2.1) born December 16, 1951
Connie Louise Gowen
(G-1/2.2) born July 3, 1954
Bonnie Lee Gowen (G-1/2.1),
daughter of Arlee Claud Gowen (G1/6.2) and May Belle "Bonnie" Gowen
(B1/7.2), was born December 16, 1951 in Lubbock, according to Texas BVS File
207127. Her first home was at 3107 30th
Street in Lubbock, her second was at 3413 20th street, and in 1970 her family
removed to 5708 Gary Avenue.
After attending Lubbock Christian
School and Lubbock public schools she was graduated from Lubbock High School
in 1970. Following two years at Texas
Tech University she transferred to North Texas State University at Denton,
Texas where she was graduated with a BS degree in May 1975. Following graduate work there in chemistry
and computer science she was married June 16, 1979 to David Michael Hill
(H-1/1.1), son of David Hill (H1/1.1) and Betty Hill of Plano, Texas.
David Michael Hill (H-1/1.1), a
graduate of North Texas State University and a U.S. Marine Corps veteran of
Viet Nam, was employed in the university's computer complex where they
met. In June 1979 she was employed by
Mostek Corporation, Carrollton, Texas, as a computer engineer, and two years
later she was employed by Phillips Coal Division, Phillips Petroleum Company,
Richardson, Texas as a systems analyst.
In November 1984 they made
their home at Lewisville, Texas where he was employed as a satellite
communications engineer with Bell of Canada in nearby Richardson. At that time she was employed by Cray
Research Corporation, a supercomputer manufacturer as a systems analyst. In April 1985 she was employed by Convex
Corporation, a computer manufacturer in Richardson. In May 1985 they purchased a home at 2405 Golden Oaks, Garland,
Texas.
Connie Louise Gowen (G-1/2.2),
daughter of Arlee Claud Gowen (G1/6.2) and May Belle "Bonnie" Bonner
Gowen (B1/7.2), was born July 3, 1954 in Lubbock, according to BVS File No.
118566. She attended Lubbock Christian
School and Lubbock public schools and was graduated from Monterey High School
in 1973. During her undergraduate days
she worked for the City of Lubbock in its Parks & Recreation Department,
for Globe Department Store and as a waitress for International House of Pancakes,
Ramada Inn and Big Texan Steak House.
She was graduated from Texas Tech University with a BS degree in 1976
and from University of Texas Medical School at Houston, Texas in June 1979 with
an M.D. degree.
In July 1979 she began a
surgery residency at Queens Medical Center in Honolulu, Hawaii. In July 1981 she began a period of residency
at Veterans Administration Hospital, Johnson City, Tennessee.
She was married there June 25,
1983 to Darryl William Hiers (H-1/1.1), son of Dr. Donald Grover Hiers
(H1/1.1) and Gypsy Lee Whitten Hiers (W1/1.1).
In July 1983 she began the practice of plastic surgery in Chattanooga,
Tennessee at Erlanger Hospital in association with the University of
Tennessee. He was graduated there from
the University of Tennessee with a B.S. degree May 6, 1985.
In July 1985 she established a
plastic surgery practice at Jonesboro, Arkansas, and they purchased a home
there at 601 Arrowhead Drive, within 100 yards of the original homestead of
James Gowen (G5/1.4) who settled there before 1870!
In 1986 she was appointed to
"Outstanding Young Women of America." In January 1987 she was inducted into "Who's Who of American
Women." Later that year she was
entered into "World's Who's Who of Women." and was named an associate
fellow in the American Academy of Cosmetic Surgery. On November 20, 1987 she was appointed to American Board of
Plastic Surgery.
Willie Elmer Cox (C2/10.2), son
of James Madison Cox (C3/4.10) and Amanda Lucinda "Cindy" McCall Cox
(M3/1.1), was born September 30, 1896 at Leander, Texas. He appeared as a three-year-old in the 1900
census of Williamson County, living in his father's household. His family removed to Albany, Texas in 1906
and to Young County in 1908, to Round Timbers, Texas in 1909 and to Altus,
Oklahoma in 1911. His father moved the
family to Weed, New Mexico in 1915. He
registered his cattle brand "JC" with the State of New Mexico May 23,
1917.
When his father was killed by
gunshot there at a sawmill the 20-year-old Willie Elmer Cox (C2/10.2) rode onto
the scene with his pistol ready to avenge his father's death. He raced his pony around and around the
sawmill trying to get a shot at his father's adversary without providing a
stationary target himself. Calmer heads finally prevailed upon him to leave
justice to the law.
Willie Elmer Cox (C2/10.2) and
his mother returned to Texas in 1920, locating on a farm in Stonewall County,
and was married at Swenson, Texas January 16, 1921 to Effie Elmo Ramsey
(R2/1.1) who was born March 25, 1903 in Stonewall County. In 1924 he began farming in the Klondike
community of Dawson County and in 1930 bought the community grocery store
there. He died of peritonitis following
an appendectomy February 16, 1936, at age 39, and was buried in Lamesa Cemetery.
In 1939 Effie Elmo Ramsey Cox
(R2/1.1) and her son lived in Seagraves, Texas. Later she returned to Lamesa.
She died April 18, 1956 and was buried beside her husband.
One son was born to Willie
Elmer Cox (C2/10.2) and Effie Elmo Ramsey Cox (R2/1.1).
Dorman Elmer Cox
(C1/2.1) born June 11,
1924
Dorman Elmer Cox (C1/2.1), son
of Willie Elmer Cox (C2/10.2) and Effie Elmo Ramsey Cox (R2/1.1), was born June
11, 1924 in Dawson County. He was
inducted November 13, 1942 at Ft. Sill, Oklahoma in the U.S. Army Air Corps and
received his basic training at Shepherd Field, Wichita Falls, Texas. He was married January 24, 1943 in
Waresboro, Georgia to Meddie Rilla Chauncey (C1/1.1), who was born in
Waycross, Georgia January 24, 1923. She
was one of 13 children of William Sylvester Chauncey (C2/1.1) and Emma Riberton
Chauncey (R2/1.1). Shortly afterward he
was stationed in India and served in the C.B.I. theatre during World War
II. He was discharged from the Air
Corps November 2, 1945 at Ft. McPherson, Atlanta, Georgia.
Following a short residency in
Georgia he returned to Lamesa where he was employed in carpentry. After a brief period the family returned to
Waycross, Georgia where they were living October 25, 1946. After a short employment on a chicken farm
in Callahan, Florida he brought his family back to Lamesa where he was employed
as a carpenter. In 1955 they lived
briefly in Odessa, Texas and then moved to Lubbock where he was employed as a
Dr. Pepper route salesman.
Later he was employed in the
printing department of "Southwestern Crop & Stock." Afterwards he was employed as a
"glassblower" and lathe operator in the cathode ray tube plant of
Electros, Inc.
Meddie Rilla Chauncey Cox
(C1/1.1) contracted cancer about 1956, and the family removed to Jacksonville,
Florida in 1959 so she could be near her family. She died there March 16, 1960 and was buried in the Chauncey
family cemetery in Telmore, Georgia.
The family returned to Lubbock and resumed his association with
Electros, Inc.
Dorman Elmer Cox (C1/2.1) was
remarried September 7, 1962 to Ollie Maurice Green Ramsey (G1/1.1). Shortly afterward she was graduated from
Lubbock School of Vocational Nurses.
In 1966 the removed to Ft. Worth, Texas where he was employed as a
printer for Manney Co. She was a nurse
at John Peter Smith Hospital. Later she
was director of nurses at Fireside Nursing Home.
Ollie Maurice Green Ramsey Cox
(G1/1.1) died October 30, 1975 of a heart condition. He was remarried January 8,
1976 to "her best friend," Mildred Louise Nickens Becker (N1/1.1), a
nurse who was employed with her. A
mother of four, she was born November 30, 1923 in St. Louis, Missouri.
In September 1983 he continued
to live in Ft. Worth where he was employed as a super- intendent for a
construction company. Later he was a
partner in C&R Construction Co. He was incapacitated for a time in a
construction accident in December 1984 in which his right leg was fractured in
six places.
Children born to Dorman Elmer
Cox (C1/2.1) and Meddie Rilla Chauncey Cox (C1/1.1) include:
Kenneth Dorman Cox
(C-1/1.1) born September 3,
1944
Linda Dardanella Cox
(C-1/1.2) born October 25, 1946
Gary Allen Cox
(C-1/1.3) born
February 9, 1951
Stephen Elmer Cox
(C-1/1.4) born
January 28, 1956
No children were born to Dorman
Elmer Cox (C1/2.1) and Ollie Maurice Green Ramsey Cox (G1/1.1), but they
adopted a daughter and assumed foster parenthood of another:
Doyla Letta Cox
(C-1/1.5) born
October 21, 1967
Theresa Ann Lairmore
(L-1/1.1) born December 1,
1969
Kenneth Dorman Cox (C-1/1.1),
son of Dorman Elmer Cox (C1/2.1) and Meddie Rilla Chauncey Cox (C1/1.1), was
born September 3, 1944 in Waycross. He
attended school in Lamesa, Odessa and Lubbock and was graduated there in 1963
from Monterey High School. Following
graduation he was employed by Hemphill-Wells Company and Electros, Inc. In August 1963 he enlisted in the U. S.
Marine Corps and received a medical discharge from the corps in December
1963. Later he was a student at University
of Florida.
He was married August 15, 1970
to Mary Virginia Allencia (A-1/1.1).
They were divorced in 1972 in Houston. He was remarried November 20, 1972 to Chloe Lou Schumacher
(S-1/1.1) in Ft. Worth. They were
divorced shortly afterward. He was remarried
April 28, 1984 to Peggy Ann Threat, a mother of three. In 1985 he, a construction supervisor,
lived in Ft. Worth. In 1988 he was a
taxi driver there.
Children born to Kenneth Dorman
Cox (C-1/1.1) and Mary Virginia Allencia Cox (A-1/1.1) include:
Rilla Theresa Cox
(C-2/1.1) born March 22,
1972
No children were born to
Kenneth Dorman Cox (C-1/1.1), Chloe Lou Schumacher Cox (S-1/1.1) and Peggy Ann
Threat Cox.
Linda Dardanella Cox (C-1/1.2),
daughter of Dorman Elmer Cox (C1/2.1) and Meddie Rilla Chauncey Cox (C1/1.1),
was born October 25, 1946 in Waycross.
She was graduated from Monterey High School in 1965. Following graduation she was enrolled in
Lubbock School of Vocational Nurses where she was elected president of her
class and was graduated with honors.
She took her state board examinations in May 1967 and was employed by
John Peter Smith Hospital. In an
18-year tenure there she has risen to supervisory capacity.
She was married February 14,
1977 to Jeffery Lynn Becker (B-1/1.4), son of her step- mother, Mildred Louise
Nickens Becker Cox (N1/1.1) and William Becker (B1/1.1). No children were born to them.
Gary Allen Cox (C-1/1.3), son
of Dorman Elmer Cox (C1/2.1) and Meddie Rilla Chauncey Cox (C1/1.10), was born
February 9, 1951 in Lamesa. He attended
public school in Lubbock and Ft. Worth and enrolled in the latter city in
Tarrant County Junior College.
He was married September 20,
1971 in Ft. Worth to Donna Lee "Jingles" Peters (P-1/- 1.1). In 1972 they lived in Beckley, West
Virginia. They were divorced in 1974 in
Oklahoma. In 1978 he was remarried to
Rita Darlene Gilpin (G-1/1.1), daughter of William Franklin Gilpin (G1/1.1)
and Lela Irene Lampp Gilpin (L1/1.1) of Ft. Worth. In February 1985 he was
supervisor of construction and maintenance at John Peter Smith Hospital and
lived in River Oaks, Texas.
Children born to Gary Allen Cox
(C-1/1.3) and Donna Lee "Jingles" Peters Cox (P-1/1.1) include:
Larry Allen Cox
(C-2/3.1) born March 22,
1972
Children born to Gary Allen Cox
(C-1/1.3) and Rita Darlene Gilpin Cox (G-1/1.1) in- clude:
Misty Amber Cox
(C-2/3.2) born January 21, 1980
Stephen William Cox
(C-2/3.3) born July 24,
1982
Stephen Elmer Cox (C-1/1.4),
son of Dorman Elmer Cox (C1/2.1) and Meddie Rilla Chauncey Cox (C1/1.1), was
born January 28, 1956 in Lubbock. He
attended public school in Lubbock and Ft. Worth. He enlisted in the U.S. Navy April 17, 1975 and received his
basic training in Orlando, Florida.
Later he attended a naval electronics school in Chicago, Illinois. He was discharged September 17, 1976.
He was married November 24,
1978 to Karen Dawn Stanfill (S-1/1.1) in Ft. Worth. They were divorced in 1980.
He was married June 9, 1984 in Las Vegas, Nevada to Rhonda Karen Richard
Chasteen (R-1/1.1), daughter of Norman Richard (R1/1.1) and Sondra Sher Richard
(S1/1.1).
In 1985 he, the owner of
Creative Wood Crafts, continued to live in Ft. Worth. No children were born to Stephen Elmer Cox (C-1/1.4), Karen Dawn
Stanfill Cox (S-1/1.1) and Rhonda Karen Richard Chasteen Cox (R-1/1.1).
Doyla Letta Cox (C-1/1.5),
adopted daughter of Dorman Elmer Cox (C1/2.1) and Ollie Maurice Green Ramsey
Cox (G1/1.1), was born October 21, 1967 in Ft. Worth. In 1985 she continued in the home of her parents. She was involved in an automobile accident
June 16, 1985 and continued in a coma for several weeks. She survived and was living in a Ft. Worth
nursing home in September 1988.
A daughter was born to her:
Theresa Shaelyn Cox
(C-2/5.1) born March 24,
1985
Theresa Ann Lairmore-Cox
(L-1/1.1), foster daughter of Dorman Elmer Cox (C1/2.1) and Ollie Maurice Green
Ramsey Cox (G1/1.1), was born December 1, 1969 in California. In 1970 she came into their home.
She died February 15, 1985 from
a self-inflicted gunshot wound to her temple.
She had a history of epileptic seizures and had recently been gripped by
the debilitating malady. Her organs
were donated to transplant patients, and she was buried in Azleland Memorial
Park.
Dan Malone, staff writer for
"Ft. Worth Star-Telegram," wrote an article around the suicide note
which she left for her family:
"The two-page note that
Theresa Ann Lairmore-Cox left her family on Valentine's Day was full of
love. But when her father reads it now,
it brings tears to his eyes and a tremor to his voice.
Theresa, a 15-year-old freshman
at Boswell High School, wrote her farewell Thursday morning, moments before
squeezing the trigger of the pistol she had placed to her head. She died Friday at John Peter Smith Hospital.
Theresa's father, Dorman E.
Cox, says he does not know why his daughter killed herself. Her note did not explain it, although she
expressed concerns about her epilepsy and anxiety about her health, he said.
"She had been having
epileptic seizures, but hadn't been bothered for some time. Here this last week she had two. She had a real strong one on Monday, which
seemed to bother her a lot, then she had another one on Tuesday," Cox said
Saturday evening, "She was worried about going back and having these
seizures."
On Thursday morning Cox woke
Theresa up for school, then drove his wife Mildred to work. When he returned about 30 minutes later, at
about 8 a.m, he found Theresa's note, and a moment later, her lifeless body in
her bed. He also found his .22-caliber
revolver in her bed with one discharged shell.
What he didn't find was a wound or blood.
She was taken to JPS, where
doctors found a small wound in her temple, Cox said. The teen-ager was kept on life-support systems until Friday, Cox
said. Cox said Theresa had never attempted
to take her life before and gave no indication that she was upset before her
death.
On Wednesday night she talked
to (her sister) Doyla Letta and one of my sons, Gary. They were over here talking, laughing, cutting up as usual,' he
said. 'One of her girlfriends had been
down for a little bit, and they been out for a while. I think they walked down to the store.'
On the back of Theresa's
photograph, printed at right, she had written message to her brother and
sister-in-law, 'To Gary and Darlene Cox & kids,' she wrote, 'Look now cause
this will be the last time you'll see me in a picture. Love ya, Theresa.'
Cox said he believed that his
daughter's words reflected her dissatisfaction with how the picture turned out,
rather than a warning of her troubled mind.
He said she accepted life on its own terms, 'She didn't expect much out
of life--she was pretty content with what she had and got.'
Cox is not Theresa's father,
though he is the only father figure she ever knew. Her father died of cancer when she was an infant. After her father's death Theresa was left in
her grandfather's care until arrangements were made to place her in Cox's
custody. Cox, a relative of Theresa's
through a previous marriage, became her legal guardian.
Cox asked that the note that
Theresa left not be published, but he offers a general description. She left word of her love for her family and
a plea to understand what she did--if not why, 'It was just her way of saying
goodbye and God bless you.'
Theresa will be buried at
Azleland Memorial Park on Monday--the day that she was supposed to see her
doctor about the latest round of seizures."
James Alvia Cox (C2/10.3), son
of James Madison Cox (C3/4.10) and Amanda Lucinda "Cinda" McCall Cox
(M3/1.1), was born August 12, 1898 in Williamson County. In 1901 his family lived in Menard, Texas
and in the same year moved to Nolan County, Texas, returned to Williamson
County in 1905, moved to Albany in 1906, farmed in Young County, Texas in 1908,
moved to Round Timbers, Texas in 1909 and to Altus, Oklahoma in 1911. In 1915, while living in Throckmorton
County, Texas, his father was influenced to move to Weed, New Mexico to
homestead land there.
James Alvia Cox (C2/10.3) was
married September 1, 1919 at Cloudcroft, New Mexico to Mary Margaret
"Maggie" Drennan (D1/2.2), his third cousin, once-removed, who was
born January 31, 1901. They were not
aware of their relationship until his sister, Mary Alnora "Nora" Cox
Drennan (C2/10.4) began to research the family history about 1958. Mary
Margaret "Maggie" Drennan (D1/2.2) was the daughter of Thomas Braxton
"Brack" Drennan (D2/1.2) and Mary Ann Britt Drennan (B2/1.1).
In 1920 James Alvia Cox
(C2/10.3) and Mary Margaret "Maggie" Drennan Cox (D1/2.2) lived in
Breckenridge, Texas. In 1923 they lived
in Ajo, Arizona, and in 1924 in Compton, California. He wrote his mother at that time that he was earning $1 an hour
as a concrete finisher. In 1925 they
returned to Texas. He was operating a
service station in the Klondike community of Dawson County across the
intersection from the grocery later owned by his brother. He was shot and killed there February 6,
1929 by W. E. Duke.
A newspaper story regarding the
shooting appeared in the February 7 edition of "The Lubbock Journal:"
LAMESA, Feb. 7--J. A. Cox,
filling station operator of the Klondyke community,
fifteen miles southwest of
here, was shot and instantly killed late last night.
W. E. Duke, pastor of the Midway
Baptist Church, near Lamesa, surrendered to officers shortly after the
shooting.
Both Cox and Duke are from
prominent Dawson County families. In
addition to his ministry, the Rev. Duke is owner and operator of a store at
Klondyke, where he and his family live.
The shooting occurred in front of the Duke store. The Rev. Mr. Duke has been pastor there for
the past five years.
The Rev. Mr. Duke would make no
statement this morning concerning the tragedy
following a conference with
Judge J. E. Garland. County Attorney A.
W. Gibson
announced that an examining
trial would be held today. No cause for
the shooting could be advanced today by Sheriff Joe L. Ray or Deputy A. M.
Bennett of Dawson County.
Mr. Cox is survived by his
widow, four children, one brother and other relatives. The body is being held in a local
undertaking establishment awaiting arrival of relatives."
He was buried in Lamesa
Cemetery. Mary Margaret
"Maggie" Drennan Cox (D1/2.2) was remarried November 27, 1931 to
Calvin Shipley (S2/1.1) who was born September 12, 1900. They continued to live in Lamesa where they
operated a taxi service. Later they removed
to Seminole, Texas and continued to operate a taxi service. She died there December 27, 1981, and he
died there April 5, 1982.
Children born to James Alvia
Cox (C2/10.3) and Mary Margaret "Maggie" Drennan Cox (D1/2.2)
include:
James Carlton "Pete" Cox (C1/3.1) born July 18, 1920
Desmond Ray Cox
(C1/3.2) born September 1, 1921
Margaret D'Melba Cox
(C1/3.3) born July 31,
1923
James Alvia Cox, Jr. (C1/3.4)
born December 1, 1925
Children born to Calvin Shipley
(S2/1.1) and Mary Margaret "Maggie" Drennan Cox Shipley (D1/2.2)
include:
Billie Kasteen
Shipley (S1/1.1) born June
2, 1933
Jerry Mack
Shipley (S1/1.2) born October 10, 1934
Gary Paul Shipley (S1/1.3)
born October 12, 1941
James Carlton "Pete"
Cox (C1/3.1), son of James Alvia Cox (C2/10.3) and Mary Margaret
"Maggie" Drennan Cox (D1/2.2), was born July 18, 1920 at
Breckenridge. During World War II he
served as a hospital corpsman stationed at Ft. Bliss, Texas near El Paso. He was married there about 1941 to Dorothy
Faye Hitchcock (H1/1.1).
Following military service he
became a doctor of chiropractic and developed his practice in El Paso where he
continued in 1988.
Children born to James Carlton
"Pete" Cox (C1/3.1) and Dorothy Faye Hitchcock Cox (H1/1.1) include:
James Carlton Cox, Jr.
(C-1/1.1) born September 1,
1942
Phillip Curtis Cox
(C-1/1.2) born February 25, 1944
James Carlton Cox, Jr.
(C-1/1.1), son of James Carlton "Pete" Cox (C1/3.1) and Dorothy Faye
Hitchcock Cox (H1/1.1), was born September 1, 1942 in El Paso. He was married about 1964 to Patti Burns
(B-1/1.1). Following a divorce he was
remarried about 1974, wife's name Barbara.
He was an undercover narcotics officer, and received a debilitating
injury in the course of his work. In
1988 he lived near Houston.
Children born to James Carlton
Cox, Jr. (C-1/1.1) and Patti Burns Cox (B-1/1.1) include:
Kimberly Cox
(C-2/1.1) born about 1967
Kathleen Cox
(C-2/1.2) born about 1970
Children born to James Carlton
Cox, Jr. (C-1/1.1) and Barbara Cox include:
Krystal Cox
(C-2/1.3) born about 1976
Shannon Cox
(C-2/1.4) born about
1978
John Cox
(C-2/1.5) born about
1980
James Carlton Cox III (C-2/1.6) born
about 1983
Phillip Curtis Cox (C-1/1.2),
son of James Carlton "Pete" Cox (C1/3.1) and Dorothy Faye Hitchcock
Cox (H1/1.1), was born February 25, 1944 in El Paso. He was married about 1967, wife's name Lynn. Following a divorce he was remarried, wife's
name Rebecca. In 1988 they continued
in El Paso. Children born to Phillip
Curtis Cox and Rebecca Cox are unknown.
Children born to Phillip Curtis
Cox (C-1/1.2) and Lynn Cox include:
Kay Lynn Cox
(C-2/2.1) born about 1985
Desmond Ray Cox (C1/3.2), son
of James Alvia Cox (C2/10.3) and Mary Margaret "Maggie" Drennan Cox
(D1/2.2), was born September 1, 1921.
Following U.S. Army service during World War II he was married to Agnes
Kay Kidd Way (K1/1.1), a widow with two sons.
They resided in Ft. Worth where he was employed as a metalsmith. No children were born to Desmond Ray Cox
(C1/3.2) and Agnes Kay Kidd Way Cox (K1/1.1).
In 1988 they lived at Holiday Estates, Granbury, Texas.
Margaret D'Melba Cox (C1/3.3),
daughter of James Alvia Cox (C2/10.3) and Mary Margaret "Maggie"
Drennan Cox (D1/2.2), was born July 31, 1923 in Ajo, Arizona. Her family returned to Dawson County
shortly afterwards. She was married
August 31, 1941 at Anson, Texas to Elton Lee Gossett (G1/1.1). During World War II he served in the U.S.
Army in Europe as a tank destroyer mechanic.
In 1943 she lived in Lamesa.
Following his discharge he owned a refrigeration business in Abilene,
Texas. In February 1955 they removed to
El Paso where he was employed in civil service at Ft. Bliss in refrigeration,
air conditioning and pneumatics. He
retired in 1984, and in 1985 they removed to Brady, Texas where he died July 8,
1986. He was buried at Ft. Bliss.
Children born Elton Lee Gossett
(G1/1.1) and Margaret D'Melba Cox Gossett (C1/3.3) include:
Margaret Lee Gossett (G-1/1.1) born December 14, 1943
Ronnie Keith Gossett (G-1/1.2) born December 17, 1946
Elton Lee Gossett, Jr.
(G-1/1.3) born February 26, 1953
Samuel David Gossett
(G-1/1.4) born June 22,
1956
Margaret Lee Gossett (G-1/1.1),
daughter of Elton Lee Gossett (G1/1.1) and Margaret D'Melba Cox Gossett
(C1/3.3), was born December 14, 1943 in Lamesa. She was married August 31, 1961 to Wayland Wallace McCulloch
(M-1/1.1). In 1988 they continued to
live in Seminole.
Children born to them include:
Gregory Todd
McCulloch (M-2/1.1) born July 4, 1962
Shannon D'Lee McCulloch
(M-2/1.2) born August 11,
1965
Gregory Todd McCulloch
(M-2/1.1), son of Wayland Wallace McCulloch (M-1/1.1) and Margaret Lee Gossett
McCulloch (G-1/1.1), was born in Lamesa July 4, 1962. In 1988 he lived in Brownfield, Texas.
Shannon D'Lee McCulloch
(M-2/1.2), daughter of Wayland Wallace McCulloch (M-1/1.1) and Margaret Lee
Gossett McCulloch (G-1/1.1), was born in Lamesa August 11, 1965. In 1985 she was a student at Texas Tech
University. She was married in 1988 to
Guy Henson, Jr. (H-2/1.1). In 1988 he
was a farmer at Seminole, and she was continuing her college education in
commuting to Hobbs, New Mexico.
Ronnie Keith Gossett (G-1/1.2), son of Elton Lee Gossett (G1/1.1) and Margaret D'Melba Co